Having faith in the writings of newcomers is just as dangerous as listening to the stories of the jaded old hands whose experiences or failures have embittered them. Take opinions .. especially my own .. with several grains of salt. I will only say that I have experienced The Kingdom for over 20 years .. 14 years full time.
New arrivals to Thailand often fall in love far too quickly. Some fall for the ladies, others for the beaches. Most will claim, "It's the culture." People in love often view the world through rose colored glasses. Proceed with caution.
If I have not experienced something first-hand, I will be the first to tell you.